You hurt My Hurt

It was not until I found myself in an abusive failing marriage, nonexistent career, depleted financial state and my mind severely emotionally in crisis that I realized I had been merely surviving all my life. Extremely suicidal with no vision of hope I began seeking answers and help outside my comfort zone. I came across the writings of Goessoftly. In conflicting excitement I wept and rejoiced at the same time. You hurt My Hurt seemed to have been written about me and just for me. Her delicately interlaced words of wisdom, compassion and deep perceptive familiarity of the unrelentless trauma that emotional, physical and sexual abuse holds is remarkable. Nearly four years after being diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder and having found Goessoftly’s message of hope in You hurt My Hurt I am no longer a survivor but now also a victor. Through the dedication, true friendship, pure love and extremely hard work of Goessoftly, my therapist and myself I am no longer multiple. I most surely would have died without Goessoftly’s help and guidance through the murk of the darkness I was drowning in. Today, I am no longer surviving but truly living in laughter, love and with the awareness that there is always hope even when the world seems it’s darkest. You hurt My Hurt is for anyone who has ever dealt with deep emotional trauma and those closest to them; for those individuals and their families struggling with DID and abuse. Rachel Fay Solomon Domestic, Cult and Occult abuse survivor.