Thinking Myself Off: Fetish, Fantasy, and My Erotic Imagination

Let’s talk about the erotic imagination. What’s in yours? A fetish? A secret sexual fantasy? Do romance novels, erotic stories, or pornography spark your inner desires? Do you cut out wild and wonderful pieces from your life and the media you consume to sew together your own delicious bed time stories? I do. And I’m ready to open up the conversation about fetishes, sexual fantasies, and erotic media. Do I spend too much time fantasizing? How do I tell my partner? How do I incorporate pornography, erotica, or other media into my life? What happens when I feel guilty about the things that make me orgasm? What if certain words or objects in my everyday environment turn me on? These are all questions I lived with for far too long, my secrets kept locked away in the dark. Now I invite you inside my erotic mind to answer these questions and tackle these challenges with honesty and compassion. Just know, we’re in this together. An erotic mind is a terrible thing to waste. So shake out the keys to your own fantasies and click open the lock. Let’s see what’s inside.