Why Mr. Right Can't Find You: The surprising answers that will change your life - and his

This newly revised, acclaimed book has the smartest guide to today's online dating, including the truth about Tinder: does Tinder really shield you from rejection, like they say? Is Tinder a better option than online dating? Why Mr. Right Can't Find You has garnered rave reviews from Publisher's Weekly, OK! magazine, and Maclean's, and has been featured by Oprah & Friends, Glamour, Cosmopolitan-UK, Woman's World, Complete Woman, and many other media.In this updated edition, J.M. Kearns, PhD, shows that men are not shallow, not the enemy, and not aliens from Mars. In fact, the good man who is searching for you is your greatest ally.Kearns overturns the classic dating myths--e.g., that destiny chose the "one and only" man for you, that all men prefer the same body type--and explores woman-man "sightings" that occur constantly and should not be squandered.Then there is the neglected riddle of compatibility. Kearns offers a hilarious and practical guide to the factors that make two people a good long-term match for each other, illustrated with real-life vignettes straight from the dating trenches.Finally, a third of the book is devoted to online dating. Kearns unlocks these topics:- why online dating gives the best odds- the one mistake not to make in your dating searches- does everybody lie on dating sites?- how to eliminate Mr. Wrongs- why you should avoid falling in love before you meet in person- are pay dating sites a scam?- how to tailor your introduction to the guy you seek- can eHarmony.com tell who is right for you?- the first in-person meeting: what to wear, what to ask, what to watch for and watch out for.- how to choose the best dating site for you.Review"If you've been on the lookout for ages but still haven't found The One, this is for you...you'll be in the arms of your true love in no time!" -- OK! Magazine"Practical, encouraging and...optimistic...Kearns gently undermines the conventions and insecurities that keep women from actively and effectively seeking a mate, including self-defeating myths and media-inspired body-image issues... Personal anecdotes round out this thorough, thoughtful and entirely upbeat dating guide." --Publishers Weekly"I review self-help books for a living and this is the best self-help book I've ever read."-- Julia McKinnell, Contributing editor, Maclean's"Unlike most such books, Why Mr. Right Can't Find You is funny, inspiring and quite practical. A new book aimed specifically at successful, real single women, it may be just the thing you need to find Mr. Right-for-you. And it's been known to help a few men find their Ms. Right." -- Carolyn Cooke in The Now Newspaper