Why Love Succeeds or Fails

Love succeeds when you meet all of these conditions: * You have enough love to make your relationship worthwhile. * You understand how your relationship works. * You understand equally well how to fix your relationship when it doesn't work. This is a how-to book for the serious person who wants deep answers and meaningful solutions: * It explains that you see love in one of four ways: Love is a Gripping Drama, a Passionate Adventure, a Sensible Compromise or a Joyful Diversion. * It tells you why someone will fall in love with you and what that person will find difficult about you. * Likewise it tells you why you fall in love with a certain individual and what you find difficult about him or her. * It also describes the ten possible love-matches of the four love attitudes. * It tells you what works well between you and your lover and what works poorly. * It provides suggestions for managing what's difficult and problematic.