The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It

The New York Times bestselling look at the real reasons for male marital infidelity and what might prevent it
Few events cause as much turmoil in a marriage as infidelity. It can shatter trust and breed insecurity and resentment from which some relationships never recover. People who think it won't happen to them are hit that much harder when it does. Why are men unfaithful? Can infidelity be prevented? What do men say they're getting from their mistresses that they're missing at home? Do a man's friends have anything to do with his willingness to cheat?
In this New York Times bestselling book, experienced family counselor M. Gary Neuman shares the revealing and surprising findings of a cutting-edge research study in which he interviewed men across the country who have physically cheated on their wives. Neuman shares many shocking discoveries, including the prominent role of emotional dissatisfaction in motivating husbands who stray and how small a role sexual dissatisfaction plays.
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<li>Based on a groundbreaking study of both cheating men and men who have remained faithful</li>
<li>Reveals surprising findings on the contribution of sexual and emotional dissatisfaction to male infidelity</li>
<li>Written by experienced family counselor M. Gary Neuman, coauthor of In Good Times and Bad and author of Emotional Infidelity
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<li>Neuman and The Truth about Cheating were featured twice on The Oprah Winfrey Show
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Drawing on dramatic case stories of the author's own work with clients, The Truth about Cheating includes proactive strategies and action steps for married women to help them prevent infidelity and create a faithful and rewarding marriage.

Neuman, M. Gary

Health, Fitness & Dieting

Trade Paper Press

How adults can heal the pain caused by their parents' divorce—from New York Times bestselling author Gary NeumanMillions of adults were children of divorce—and while a few have found closure and healing, many continue to struggle with the trauma of their parents' divorce, commonly even 20, 30, or 40 years after it happened. If you are experiencing some of the common reactions to divorce, including issues of trust, ongoing sadness, and the feeling that you can't shake your past, then you are likely still suffering from the pain of your parents' divorce. This book is designed to help you rebuild your past, regardless of how long you have felt unable to do so. Licensed family counselor Gary Neuman has worked successfully with many adult survivors of parental divorce. In this book, he presents a new, proven program to help you see and understand your past in order to let go of the pain of your parents' divorce and transform both your present and your future.
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<li>Presents a proven, 4-step process that will help you re-experience your past and understand it in a new, more objective way</li>
<li>Guides you through major issues that can affect adult survivors of divorce, such as finding peace with your parents and getting comfortable with love</li>
<li>Written by the New York Times bestselling author of The Truth About Cheating and Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way
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The Long Way Home: The Powerful 4-Step Plan for Adult Children of Divorce

Self-Help

In their own voices, women show how to strengthen your relationship-with surprising revelations from New York Times bestselling author Gary Neuman
This breakthrough book, based on the voices of real women from all walks of life and groundbreaking new research, shows couples how to grow stronger by understanding what women need from a romantic relationship. In Connect to Love, family counselor and relationships expert M.Gary Neuman explores the problems that women face in their marriages or relationships that might make them dissatisfied with their partners-or willing to stray. Neuman reveals the startling discoveries he made through his in-depth new research of more than five hundred women. When it comes to sexual intimacy, for instance, wives who are satisfied with their marriages have sex more than twice as frequently than those who are dissatisfied.
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<li>Includes a step-by-step two-week plan to improve your relationship</li>
<li>Filled with dramatic personal stories and surprising findings on sex, emotional issues, intimacy, communication, and more</li>
<li>From the author of the New York Times bestseller The Truth about Cheating
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<li>Neuman has been a frequent guest on Oprah, Today, and other major TV shows</li>
<li>Written for couples while addressing both female and male issues</li>
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Written with a compassionate and down-to-earth tone, Connect to Love will open your eyes to see relationships in a new way while empowering yourself and your partner for change.

Connect to Love: The Keys to Transforming Your Relationship

Relationships

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In Good Times and Bad: Strengthening Your Relationship When the Going Gets Tough and the Money Gets Tight

Business & Money

Neuman, Melisa

Personal Finance

What’s holding you back from a great marriage? “I don’t believe in ‘okay,’ ‘decent,’ or ‘solid’ marriages. I’m against them,” says M. Gary Neuman. “I believe only in great marriages, and that you should expect and reach for no less.” In the last fifteen years, M. Gary Neuman, marital therapist and architect of the Sandcastles Divorce Therapy Program, has helped thousands of couples in crisis. Couples who fight. Who’ve grown apart. Who are stuck in relationships that run more on routine and rancor than love and understanding. What he’s found is that, contrary to popular belief, the problem is usually not poor communication. It’s the failure to put most of your focus into your marriage. You’ve only got so much energy. Are you spending it by being emotionally unfaithful? Take a quick check: Do you send that funny e-mail to your friends at work—but not to your spouse? Do you chew over all the problems on the job so thoroughly with your colleagues that by the time you get home, you just don’t feel like going into it all over again? Do you get a secret thrill out of flirting with coworkers—thinking it’s safe because you know it’s not going any further? If so, you’re committing emotional infidelity—and you’re draining your marriage of the energy it needs to be great. Learning how to break this cycle is one of eleven secrets M. Gary Neuman shares in his provocative new book. Based on the ten-week program he’s developed in his successful couples counseling practice, the book offers guidelines that are often counterintuitive, even outrageous or shocking. But they work. Dare to limit contact with members of the opposite sex. Dare to need each other. Dare to put in writing the nitty-gritty realities of a marriage plan. Dare to put your marriage before your kids or job. Dare to make love in a whole new way. Dare to change your focus: make the commitment to focus on each of the eleven secrets (ten plus one bonus secret) for one week apiece and you’ll reap the rewards of a transformed marriage and a reconfirmed relationship. M. Gary Neuman’s program is guaranteed to challenge you and make you reexamine the myths holding you back from true happiness and satisfaction. It will change your marriage forever.

Emotional Infidelity: How to Avoid It and 10 Other Secrets to a Great Marriage

Crown

Emotional Infidelity: How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage and 10 Other Secrets to a Great Relationship

Harmony/Rodale/Convergent

Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way

Divorce is painful and confusing. Perhaps now more than ever, you want to give your child all the love, support, and guidance he or she needs, but everything seems harder and more complicated. Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way can help. Based on Gary Neuman's phenomenally successful Sandcastles program, which has helped more than fifty thousand children cope with divorce, this warm, empathetic guide shows you: How to build a co-parenting relationship--even when you think you can't When you or your child should see a therapist Age-appropriate scripts for addressing sensitive issues What to do when a parent moves away How to stop fighting with your ex-spouse How to navigate the emotional turmoil of custody and visitation How to help your child deal with change How to cope with kids' common fears about separation How to introduce significant others into the family and help your child cope with a new stepfamily More than a hundred pieces of artwork from children of divorce will help you appreciate how kids perceive the experience. Dozens of special activities and fun exercises will help you communicate and get closer to your child. This guide shows you that divorce need not be an inevitable blot on children's lives, but an opportunity for them to grow and strengthen the bonds with their parents. From the Trade Paperback edition.

Parenting & Relationships

Family Relationships

This breakthrough book, based on the voices of real women from all walks of life and on groundbreaking new research, shows couples how to grow stronger by understanding what women need from a romantic relationship. In Connect to Love, family counselor and relationships expert M. Gary Neuman explores the problems that women face in their marriages or relationships that might make them dissatisfied with their partners--or willing to stray. Neuman reveals the startling discoveries he made through his in-depth new research of more than five hundred women. When it comes to sexual intimacy, for instance, wives who are satisfied with their marriages have sex more than twice as frequently than those who are dissatisfied. --Includes a step-by-step two-week plan to improve your relationship --Filled with dramatic personal stories and surprising findings on sex, emotional issues, intimacy, communication, and more --From the author of the New York Times bestseller The Truth about Cheating --Neuman has been a frequent guest on The Oprah Winfrey Show, The Today Show, and other major television shows --Written for couples while addressing both female and male issues Written with a compassionate and down-to-earth tone, Connect to Love will open your eyes and allow you to see relationships in a new way while empowering yourself and your partner for change.

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The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It

The Long Way Home: The Powerful 4-Step Plan for Adult Children of Divorce

Connect to Love: The Keys to Transforming Your Relationship

The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It

In Good Times and Bad: Strengthening Your Relationship When the Going Gets Tough and the Money Gets Tight

Emotional Infidelity: How to Avoid It and 10 Other Secrets to a Great Marriage

Emotional Infidelity: How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage and 10 Other Secrets to a Great Relationship

Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way

Connect to Love: The Keys to Transforming Your Relationship