Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non-monogamy

Fern, Jessica

Parenting & Relationships

Scribe UK

<div>Attachment theory has entered the mainstream, but most discussions focus on how we can cultivate secure monogamous relationships. What if, like many people, you're striving for secure, happy attachments with more than one partner? Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern breaks new ground by extending attachment theory into the realm of consensual nonmonogamy. Using her nested model of attachment and trauma, she expands our understanding of how emotional experiences can influence our relationships. Then, she sets out six specific strategies to help you move toward secure attachments in your multiple relationships. Polysecure is both a trailblazing theoretical treatise and a practical guide.</div>

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

Thornapple Press

The new visual companion to the book Polysecure, the HEARTS poster offers a daily reminder of key ways to nurture security with your loved ones. As featured in the groundbreaking book Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy, the HEARTS framework outlines the different ingredients, skills, capacities and ways of being required for secure functioning in multiple attachment-based partnerships. This colourful 10.25 x 17.5 folded poster will help you remember the HEARTS framework and use it every day to cultivate security with your loved ones.

The HEARTS of Being Polysecure: Creating secure attachments in multiple relationships

Thorntree Press

Product Description This set includes the book Polysecure and the poster "The HEARTS of Being Polysecure." Attachment theory has entered the mainstream, but most discussions focus on how we can cultivate secure monogamous relationships. What if, like many people, you're striving for secure, happy attachments with more than one partner? In Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy, polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern breaks new ground by extending attachment theory into the realm of consensual nonmonogamy. Using her nested model of attachment and trauma, she expands our understanding of how emotional experiences can influence our relationships. Then, she sets out the HEARTS framework of six specific strategies to help you move toward secure attachments in your multiple relationships. The 10.25" x 17.5" poster "The HEARTS of Being Polysecure" offers a colorful illustration of the HEARTS framework. Hung on your wall, it will offer a daily reminder of key ways to nurture security with your loved ones. About the Author Jessica Fern is a psychotherapist, public speaker and trauma and relationship expert. In her international private practice, Jessica works with individuals, couples and people in multiple-partner relationships who no longer want to be limited by their reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles and past traumas, helping them to embody new possibilities in life and love.

Polysecure and The HEARTS of Being Polysecure (Bundle)

The Polysecure Workbook encourages examination of any attachment challenges you may have experienced in your opening up process and offers insights into how to build secure relationships. Through practical exercises, you will explore your own attachment history, examine your reasons for practicing nonmonogamy and the different styles of nonmonogamy that you relate to, and consider whether you rely on relationship structure for your attachment security. The Polysecure Workbook provides the tools needed to navigate the complexities of multiple loving relationships and to build personal security.

The Polysecure Workbook: Healing Your Attachment and Creating Security in Loving Relationships

As polyamory continues to make its way into the mainstream, more and more people are exploring consensual nonmonogamy in the hope of experiencing more love, connection, sex, freedom and support. While for many, the move expands personal horizons, for others, the transition can be challenging, leaving them blindsided and overwhelmed. Beyond the initial transition to nonmonogamy, many struggle with the root issues beneath the symptoms of broken agreements, communication challenges, increased fighting and persistent jealousy.&nbsp; Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern and restorative justice facilitator David Cooley share the insights they have gained through thousands of hours working with clients in consensually nonmonogamous relationships. Using a grounded theory approach, they explore the underlying challenges that nonmonogamous individuals and partners can experience after their first steps, offering practical strategies for transforming them into opportunities for new levels of clarity and intimacy. Polywise provides both the conceptual framework to better understand the shift from monogamy to nonmonogamy and the tools to navigate the next steps.

Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships

Self-Help

Cooley, David

Relationships

The HEARTS of Being Polysecure: Creating Secure Attachments in Multiple Relationships

Jessica Fern extends attachment theory into the realm of consensual nonmonogamy. In Polysecure, she expands our understanding of how emotional experiences can influence our relationships and sets out six specific strategies to help you move toward secure attachments in your multiple relationships. The Polysecure Workbook builds on this basis with practical exercises to encourage contemplation of your attachment style and create more secure relationships. This is a bundle of two books: Polysecure and The Polysecure Workbook.

Polysecure and The Polysecure Workbook (Bundle)

How can we create secure, happy attachments with multiple partners? This set of two books and a fold-out poster is a practical toolkit for building secure attachments in polyamory. In Polysecure, psychotherapist Jessica Fern extends attachment theory into the realm of consensual nonmonogamy. The accompanying folded poster displays her HEARTS framework— six specific strategies to help you move toward secure attachments in multiple relationships— and The Polysecure Workbook provides practical prompts to explore your own attachment history and reasons for practicing nonmonogamy. The Complete Polysecure Bundle provides the tools needed to navigate multiple loving relationships and to build personal security.

The Complete Polysecure Bundle

Una red segura: Apego, trauma y no monogamia consensuada

Health, Fitness & Dieting

Sexual Health

Continta Me Tienes (Errementari S.L.)

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