« ¿Y ahora qué?» Esa es la pregunta que miles de personas enojadas y con el corazón destrozado se hacen cada año a raíz de una aventura amorosa. Si te estás preguntando ¿y ahora qué?, no estás solo. Decenas de miles de lectores han hecho de Destrozados un éxito de librería y han recibido el beneficio de sus sabios consejos. // Now what? That's the question thousands of angry, heartbroken people ask every year in the awake of an affair. If you're asking now what? you're not alone. Tens of thousands of readers have made Torn Asunder a bestseller and they have benefited from its wise counsel.

Destrozados/ Torn apart: La recuperación de una relación extramatrimonial/ The recovery of an affair (Spanish Edition)

Religion & Spirituality

Carder, Dave

Christian Books & Bibles

Editorial Unilit

Anatomia de un romance prohibido es una medicina preventia que le permitira estar atento a aquello que puede en riesgo de ser infiel en su matrimonio. Justo cuando piensa que su matrimonio esta a salvo del adulterio es cuando puede ser mas vulnarable.

Anatomía de un romance prohibido (Spanish Edition)

When it comes to adultery, never say, “It won’t happen to me.”
Just when you think your marriage is safe from adultery is when you may be the most vulnerable. 
With eye-opening stories, clinical insights, and up-to-date data, Dave Carder reveals what adulterers learned the hard way—and what they want the rest of us to know to save us the pain. 
Dave Carder, counselor and author of the bestselling Torn Asunder (100,000 in print), is a sought-after expert on issues of adultery. Here he helps you make your marriage adultery-proof by showing you:
<ul>
<li>How attractions can lead to affairs</li>
<li>Ways you may be vulnerable to affairs</li>
<li>The common ingredients of adultery</li>
<li>How to restore intimacy to your marriage</li>
<li>How to make wise, protective decisions</li>
</ul>
Marriage is too sacred to be taken casually. Affairs are a very real threat, and they can destroy lives and families. For this reason, Anatomy of an Affair should be on every church leader’s and marriage counselor’s required reading list, and in the home of every married couple. 
Includes charts and assessments to understand and guard against affairs. 
This book is the revised edition of Close Calls (2008)

Anatomy of an Affair: How Affairs, Attractions, and Addictions Develop, and How to Guard Your Marriage Against Them

Self-Help

Relationships

Moody Publishers

Never say never—just when you think your marriage is safe from adultery is when you may be the most vulnerable.
With eye-opening stories, clinical insights, and up-to-date data, Dave Carder reveals what adulterers learned the hard way—and what they want the rest of us to know. 
Carder, counselor and author of the bestselling Torn Asunder (100,000 in print), is a sought-after expert on issues of adultery. Here he helps you make your marriage adultery-proof. For this reason, Close Calls should be on every church leader’s and marriage counselor’s required reading list. 
Includes charts and assessments.

Close Calls: What Adulterers Want You to Know About Protecting Your Marriage

Northfield Publishing

A resource on marital infedlity for all involved, even onlookers
Written by respected pastor and marriage counselor Dave Carder, this revised and expanded version of Torn Asunder sorts through the factors that contribute to infidelity and then maps out a recovery process for both partners. With compassion and wisdom rooted in the Bible, Carder offers insight for the victims of adultery, the perpetrators, and those who seek to help hurting couples.
Along the way Carder also answers questions like:
<ul>
<li>Why did this happen? </li>
<li>We didn’t actually sleep together, so is it still an affair? </li>
<li>Can I trust my spouse again? </li>
<li>Should I reveal a secret affair? </li>
<li>What if my spouse doesn’t want me back? </li>
<li>What do we tell the kids?</li>
</ul>
This refreshed and updated edition is an excellent resource for pastors, leaders, and lay people. 
Pair this with the Torn Asunder Workbook to for extra guidance in applying the book's advice to your marriage.

Torn Asunder: Recovering From an Extramarital Affair

Based on the principles in the besstselling Torn Asunder--a book that has helped thousands of people survive infidelity--this revised and expanded workbook offers five crucial services for hurting couples:
<ul>
<li>Stabilizes the marriage in the initial crisis </li>
<li>Provides structure for the emotionally volatile environment </li>
<li>Brings closure to the "old" marriage—the marriage prior to the affair </li>
<li>Establishes skills necessary for the "new" marriage pattern </li>
<li>Answers the questions: How could you do this to me? Why did you do it?</li>
</ul>
The Torn Asunder workbook is built around daily twenty-minute homework exercises, initiated by each spouse on alternating days for ten to fifteen weeks. Working with your spouse might be the last thing you want to do right now, but it’s essential to your long-term recovery, whether or not your marriage survives.
Healing won’t be easy. But the Torn Asunder workbook provides hope, encouragement, and practical advice on the journey. Take the first step today.

Torn Asunder Workbook: Recovering From an Extramarital Affair

Even the best families, including ones in the Bible, have secrets. Incest, alcoholism, rage, codependence. And they are passed from generation to generation just as surely as eye color and skin tone. Breaking the chain is not an easy task, but Secrets of Your Family Tree can help. It examines the problems, then guides the reader in the steps of recovery.

Secrets of Your Family Tree: Healing the Present in Light of the Past

Parenting & Relationships

Moody Pub

Revised and updated from the original, this honest and forthwright look at families of all shapes and sizes will help you down the path of healing (whether you know you need it or whether yo're just not sure).
Unlocking Your Family Patterns combines decades worth of counseling wisdom and pastoral care insights into this one practical resource. Your past may hurt, and your family's patterns may have left emotional scars, but your future has not been laid in stone yet. There is hope for healing, there are lessons to learn, and there are paths toward family health.
Using clinical, biblical and practical examples to help you uncover the patterns your family has lived in, this book might lead you toward the family u-turn you've been looking for.

Unlocking Your Family Patterns: Finding Freedom From a Hurtful Past

Townsend, John

Henslin, Earl

Cloud, William Henry

There is hope for recovery from the devastation of extramarital affairs. Carder identifies three classes of affairs, includes detailed descriptions of the marriage and personality styles that encourage infidelity, and offers practical, specific, realistic counsel for beginning the recovery process.

Torn Asunder: Recovering from Extramarital Affairs

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