The I Do's and the I Dont's of Marriage

I got married at the very young age of nineteen. I grew up in a single mother home and never really got to know my father well. I realized quickly that I didn't have a good understanding of what marriage was. Many of the things I knew about marriage came from television or the small things I saw from other families around me. I never had anyone teach me what it means to be a man, father, or even husband. I never had a good understanding of the differences between men and women. Do I went into marriage with a great disadvantage. As I started navigating through marriage problems and divorce, I started studying the word of God to show me what God's design for marriage was and what was His desire for men and women individually before they came together in a union. I realized quickly that I should have never got married at such a young age without knowing the things I know now twelve years later. I learned a lot the hard way, through the word of God, and trial and error. I wrote the I Dos and I Don'ts of Marriage for all those like me who maybe didn't have the best example set before them growing up. I wrote this book in the hopes that I could help many young people avoid the heartache I went through and caused, and also that marriages could be restored and saved since many of us are operating from a place of dysfunction and often don't realize it until it is too late.