Dear Life: A Doctor's Story of Love, Loss and Consolation

Review\nHeart-wrenchingly tender―Observer\nMoving, thought-provoking and so very important. I'm immeasurably grateful to have read it, and it will stay with me. In death, we learn about life\nWhat a remarkable book this is; tender, funny, brave, heartfelt, radiant with love and life. It sings with joy and kindness\nThis is a wonderful book. Rachel takes the worst life can throw at us and shows us the beauty in it\nShe writes with a tender, lyrical beauty―Sunday Times\nMoving . . . an honest account from the front line of death―The Times\nHonest, clear-sighted and immensely wise, Clarke's book is laced with loss, vet raises a jubilant toast to life―Literary Review\nHer words are brimful of love, grace and kindness―Guardian\nAn enthralling and deeply affecting book . . . It is [the] blend of the personal and professional that makes Dear Life so special―Express\nA heartbreaking, exhilarating read―Guardian\nA truly wonderful book. Read it\nA truly beautiful book about death and life and the price of love. Told by a doctor, with compassion and wisdom. I cried, but they were warm, comforting tears. It made me think about stuff I fear in a new and better way\nA touching and profound meditation on what it means to be human . . . it is a remarkable book―Guardian\nA magnificent, tender book―Independent\nDear Life names the tension between love and risk that gives life its sweetness. It takes readers to the edge of life in supportive, wise company\n'What a remarkable book this is; tender, funny, brave, heartfelt, radiant with love and life. It brought me often to laughter and - several times - to tears. It sings with joy and kindness' Robert Macfarlane\nFrom the Sunday Times bestselling author of Your Life in My Hands comes this vibrant, tender and deeply personal memoir that finds light and love in the darkest of places.
As a specialist in palliative medicine, Dr Rachel Clarke chooses to inhabit a place many people would find too tragic to contemplate. Every day she tries to bring care and comfort to those reaching the end of their lives and to help make dying more bearable.
Rachel's training was put to the test in 2017 when her beloved GP father was diagnosed with terminal cancer. She learned that nothing - even the best palliative care - can sugar-coat the pain of losing someone you love.
And yet, she argues, in a hospice there is more of what matters in life - more love, more strength, more kindness, more joy, more tenderness, more grace, more compassion - than you could ever imagine. For if there is a difference between people who know they are dying and the rest of us, it is simply this: that the terminally ill know their time is running out, while we live as though we have all the time in the world.
Dear Life is a book about the vital importance of human connection, by the doctor we would all want by our sides at a time of crisis. It is a love letter - to a father, to a profession, to life itself.